MYSTERY’S TOP 10 TIPS on PICKUP (PUA)
2 min readMar 13, 2020
- Get into the habit of starting conversations just for the practice. Release your outcome and be relaxed in the process.
- Between approaches, always remember to smile while mingling.
- Lean back and relax when you initiate conversations. Don’t lean in. Speak slowly and expressively. This alone will improve your game by 300%.
- Be chatty-really-and convey a strong sense of fascination. Talk about relationships and the mysterious, and use lots of humour as well as emotional and sensory descriptions. Enthusiasm is contagious.
- Don’t say anything to impress her, such as bragging about your job, girls, or friends. Instead, indirectly convey value via demonstration and incidental story details. If she can tell that you are trying to impress her, she will perceive you as a lower value.
- Don’t act as if anything is a big deal. Be fun and playful. Vibe with her, but don’t react to her. Be in the same way you would act with your eight year old niece.
- As you hang out with her, and she has an opportunity to win you over, then show her your increasing interest. She must recognise that she has genuinely won you over with her personality.
- Balance indicators of interest with indicators of this interest. Do this both in your conversation with her and also as you escalate with her physically. This has a great effect.
- Wear one accessory that gives other people an excuse to initiate a conversation with you, such as a hat, or a certain ring or necklace. Have a good story prepared for when this happens.
- Have a life. Go to the gym and stay in shape, and continually improve your wardrobe. Cultivate your circle of female friends. Throw parties. Put effort into your social circle. A girl should imagine herself being part of your cool life.
